so thinks are ok. not good, but ok (well, i'm good, i'm mostly speaking for the rest of my fam, or some of them)
talked to my sis and her ex last night. things are ok. the storm has settled. the storm was really mostly with my mom, that has yet to be dealt with, but at least the other two are good.
so that's starting my day off on a less stressful note.
also, i lost 2 pounds. yay!
time to get ready for work